hmm... recently i've been thinking quite a lot and discovered that nothing in life is absolute. relativism is what reflects the present time.

some people like to say:

the accomplishing and attaining of certain goals isn't important,
but rather, its the process, the "how" we got there that matters.

while others prefer:

it doesn't matter how long or what it takes for us to get there,
what is important is that we do get there eventually.

hmmm. both sound correct to me. so then, its down to relativism again isn't it? hehe